Hello all, I thought I would ask your ideas for the sermon series after Identity Theft. Starting in August, Ken will begin a series named Parental Guidance Required - Preparing Your kids for Life. Here are the topics for the series. If you come up with something creative to do, post a comment and we’ll take it to Ken and Jim for a decision.
PARENTAL GUIDANCE REQUIRED
Preparing Your Kids for Life
AUG. 12 SERIES: PARENTAL GUIDANCE REQUIRED
SERMON: The Three Dials (Introduction Sermon)
This message is an introduction to the series and examines the three relational dials that parents
have access to in the rearing of their children. Experiences in childhood are not as important as the relationships that accompany them. In fact, the value of any experience in life is directly proportional to the value of the relationships we encounter as a result of that experience. There are three specific types of relationships that determine how well a child is equipped to face life. Success in adulthood is largely determined by the quality and function of these three relational types. If there is a deficit in any one of these areas during childhood, there is usually a corresponding deficiency in adulthood. During the fleeting window of time called parenthood - parents have a unique opportunity to influence the quality of these three relationships in the child’s life. In reality, no one else can provide the guidance in a child’s life like their parents. The dials are:
” Child’s relationship with God
” Child’s relationship with parents
” Child’s relationship with others outside the home
AUG. 19 SERIES: PARENTAL GUIDANCE REQUIRED
SERMON: 10 Things Kids Need from Caring Adults (Part One)
The message examines the qualities we want our kids to possess when they take wings and leave
the nest. The five qualities are: confidence, character, conviction, compassion, and competence. This message also examines the first three things kids need from caring adults:
” Belief (The belief in the value of being a parent. Understanding that you are the greatest influencer in the life of your kids)
” Presence (Time. Healthy kids point back to present parents in their lives)
” Memories (Healthy kids have good memories. Make memories through traditions, capture memories, prioritizing vacations, and creating adventures)
AUG. 26 SERIES: PARENTAL GUIDANCE REQUIRED
SERMON: 10 Things Kids Need from Caring Adults (Part Two)
This message examines the next three things kids need from caring adults. They are:
” Encouragement (Most language directed at kids falls into two categories - shame oriented or performance oriented. But what kids need is encouragement that is beyond performance - encouragement that says “I love you” regardless of your performance - good or bad)
” Role Models (Parent role models and other role models. They need models of integrity, deepen faith, etc.)
” Discipline (Kids need boundaries - but not a lot of rules. Biblical discipline is guidance not punishment. Disciple must be delicate and wise)
SEPT. 2 SERIES: PARENTAL GUIDANCE REQUIRED
SERMON: 10 Things Kids Need from Caring Adults (Part Three)
This message examines the next four things kids need from caring adults. They are:
” Affection (Emotionally healthy kids have been given proper affection and lots of it)
” Responsibility (Kids need to develop responsibility. Lack of responsibility manifest itself in three primary ways: apathy, blame, care-for-me mentality)
” Fun (The reason kids need fun is because of the fast pace lifestyle of their parents - and the stress they experience. Laughter and fun ingested into their life helps them relieve some of the anxieties they feel. Lighten up and schedule fun.)
” A Peaceful Home (Not a perfect home but a peaceful home. The reason a peaceful home is so important is because kids are at battle all day long. They are battling an X-rated culture, language and values. They’re battling peer pressure and temptation. And they can handle it better if they know pretty soon they’ll be coming home to peaceful and safe place.)